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If we descend from the heavens of spiritual love to earth, then we want, between us girls, to discuss very real, I would say, vital issues. How and in what ways has your attitude towards the man from whom you are expecting a child changed? Because some women become closer to men, others want more privacy, they become isolated in their feelings of pregnancy and cannot or do not want to talk about the nuances of their psychological mood to their partner. For men, such behavior from the ladies of their hearts is not only discouraging, it’s simply stunning. There was one person, bam - and suddenly a completely different person, it was as if the wife had been replaced. The topic of sex becomes a sore point for many couples expecting a child. So, let's dot the i's.
Hormones not only make it possible to bear a long-awaited child, they present surprises in your sex life. Many women are on such a high that they sometimes cannot control themselves and literally attack the future fathers of the family. The power of lust is such that it gives women a chance to feel like a man who “wants” almost always. Some members of the stronger sex even feel that they have been used. But the vast majority of couples like this sexual revolution.
Many pregnant ladies read the lines written above and were indignant: what kind of sex is there if you are tormented by nausea from morning to evening, constantly want to sleep, are overcome by weakness, dizziness and other unpleasant companions (not everyone experiences them) of pregnancy. New sensations exhaust a woman so much that by the end of the day she just wants to get to bed as quickly as possible. And the husband dreams of the joys of sex alone. This state of drowsiness and weakness is especially pronounced in the first months of pregnancy.
Men, in the first trimester of pregnancy you should not strain your beloved with sexual fantasies. At this time, the woman’s desire fades away. The hormonal background, excuse the tautology, is so bad that all the vital forces of a woman are spent on restructuring the body in the name of the needs of your baby. At this time, you should be very sensitive to avoid misunderstandings in your relationship. In addition, women who have a tendency to miscarriage or there is a real threat of miscarriage should abstain from sexual intercourse for 12 weeks. By this time, the placenta will be fully formed, thanks to which the baby is supplied with oxygen and nutrients, and the baby’s waste is also removed. Many women find that they feel dizzy during sex: and not just from happiness. And sometimes nausea occurs. Strictly between us: to prevent your feelings from coming out in a very real way, just change your position. The position of a woman on her back, a man on top is cancelled, the dominant position on top is now in fashion, and approaching from the side or on all fours will not bring any trouble.
According to doctors, the most successful time for sexual relations is the second trimester of pregnancy. In most cases, the manifestations of toxicosis disappear, and the woman again begins to feel attracted to the man. Unprecedented passion can promise the birth of a boy: doctors explain this by the fact that more male hormones enter the woman’s body. A calm sex life without outbursts may be evidence that the expectant mother is expecting the birth of a daughter.
Rounded shapes, tense breasts - all these external signs of a normally progressing pregnancy sometimes cause a woman to feel anxious: what if the man she loves will lose interest in you? Your fears are unfounded; most representatives of the stronger sex find changes more erotic.
So, be confident in yourself, because you won’t be pregnant all your life: it’s not forever! Just take care of yourself even more thoroughly than usual: manicure, pedicure, makeup, if you wear it. Buy yourself not only a maternity suit, but also some exciting underwear (you'll have to look for it, lace is not often sewn onto busts for rounder shapes). Carrying a child directs your thoughts about the future care of the baby; in children's stores you want to buy literally all the rompers and toys. But don't forget about yourself. There is very little time left that you can devote only to yourself and your beloved man. I’ll tell you a secret: most representatives of the stronger sex consider only intimacy to be a manifestation of self-love. That is, if there is no sex, he doesn’t love, if there is sex, he loves. I won’t say that it’s already painfully primitive, but simply – yes. Therefore, there is no need to reject the future father of the child and, especially, relegate him to the background.
By the way, in the last months of pregnancy, sexual activity often decreases even in a man, let alone a woman: she is tired physically and psychologically. All the spouses’ thoughts are about the birth of their baby soon. The child is no longer something abstract in the belly, but here it is, very close, a small miracle, every now and then showing a leg or arm from the mother’s belly. Men become more gentle and are afraid of harming the little man. By the way, there are representatives of the stronger sex who are afraid of doing something wrong during sex and throughout pregnancy and do not want to hear about intimacy. This usually happens to those couples who, for some reason, are waiting for the birth of their child. And now they are afraid of inadvertently ruining a dream that has almost come true - to give birth to a healthy, beautiful baby.
In the third trimester of pregnancy, the sexual desire of both partners declines. Men are becoming more responsible and understand that premature birth, which sex can cause, is undesirable. The spouses' thoughts are increasingly occupied with the upcoming change in their status: they will soon become father and mother. However, many couples are sexually active until childbirth. Women note that the most favorable time for physical manifestations of love is early in the morning or after lunch. It’s okay if a man adapts to your mood: this will only strengthen your feelings. A big belly pushes couples to look for others other than the woman on the back and the man on top. The side position is very comfortable in the last trimester of pregnancy. Also, a woman is comfortable sitting on her husband’s hips and all poses are from behind.
Many are overcome by the thought that a child is spying on lustful parents and sooner or later will say: “And these people forbid me to pick my nose?” So, there is no evidence that the child remembers the sexual relations of the parents (how much, when and where) and can cause him psychological trauma. The child in the womb feels only the state of the mother: if a woman experiences pleasure from having sex, then it only benefits him. During sexual intercourse, blood supply to the placenta improves, which means the baby receives more nutrients. The powerful energy exchange that occurs between a man and a woman during lovemaking also has a beneficial effect on the child.
Common activities will help improve relationships, including in bed. Try to go to examinations together. A man who sees his baby in person on an ultrasound monitor will certainly become more attentive and gentle towards you - the woman he loves and the future mother of his child. On the other hand, it is not at all necessary to spend all your free time together. During pregnancy, it is important to find time just for yourself. But long separations should be postponed. Even very autonomous couples get nervous during long business trips. Women feel abandoned to the mercy of fate, and men twitch all the time, believing that without their presence next to their beloved, something will go wrong. So, love each other, be close, and be sure to DIRECTLY talk about all your desires: what is going on in your head is not transmitted by impulses to the subconscious to your loved one. Men love to fulfill the most delusional, but clearly stated desires, and not our vague expectations.
The way pregnant women gobble up jars of pickles and sometimes want to eat something exotic in the middle of the night has long become the talk of the town. What do doctors think about these desires? Are such whims harmless and how to respond to them?
Unfortunately, there is no clear answer to the question of why pregnant women’s taste preferences change. Doctors believe that many factors are to blame for this: hormonal, medical, psychological and even ethnocultural!
There is an opinion that during pregnancy a woman does not correctly understand what her body wants at the moment. It requires some minerals or vitamins, and the expectant mother associates them with different products, and sometimes with objects.
Thus, the desire to consume cheese on an “industrial scale” signals a lack of sodium in the body. You want ice cream if you have a calcium deficiency. Seaweed is required by an organism that needs iodine.
However, this rule does not always work: the brain can make mistakes. It has been noted, for example, that the desire to chew ice indicates a lack of iron, but frozen water does not contain this substance. It is obvious that the brain somehow intricately processes the body’s requests and does not always understand which product contains what a pregnant woman needs. Doctors see this as the reason why many expectant mothers have a desire to eat chalk, coals, and pencils.
There are also ethnocultural features of changing preferences. Russian women, for example, strongly associate pregnancy with pickled cucumbers - accordingly, they more often want something salty. But in Europe they note an increased craving for sweets and fatty foods. It’s interesting that both our and European women are often drawn to spicy foods, but in cultures where spicy food is the norm, this is not the case. This strengthens doctors’ opinion that it is not necessary to indulge all the strange whims of pregnant women.
The most common situation is the need to eat chalk. This is believed to be a sign of calcium deficiency. In fact, it is usually a sign of iron deficiency. It is also indicated by other food preferences that are unusual in quality (ice, coal, pencil leads, clay, raw minced meat and cereals) and quantity, as well as the need to inhale the smell of gasoline, paint, wet whitewash and other chemicals.
Iron deficiency is detected by a biochemical blood test called ferritin. It is important to remember here that, Firstly, Iron deficiency should be identified and treated in the early stages of pregnancy, but in the last three months it is unsafe to take iron supplements.
Secondly, Hemoglobin levels do not always correctly reflect the amount of iron in the body. Another situation is the need for sweets. The fact is that the body strives to maintain a constant level of sugar in the blood. Sweets cause a sharp rise and a rapid decline. Therefore, if you want something sweet, eat a portion of protein food (a piece of meat, an egg). And after that - sweet, but from slowly digestible carbohydrates (muesli bar, fruit). This will give the body a slow and constant source of energy.
The desire to eat salty foods may indicate a lack of protein foods. Check how much protein you eat. Your diet should contain at least 100 g per day. In addition, information about the dangers of table salt for pregnant women is outdated. Add it to taste, use natural salt, such as sea salt.
For those who are haunted by strange desires, we can recommend the following.
In addition, doctors and psychologists note that the desire to eat is often a substitute for emotional desires. The expectant mother needs peace and confidence. According to doctors, it can also help relieve cravings for unhealthy foods.
If you want... | Try... |
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ice cream (may indicate a lack of iron and calcium) | frozen low-fat yogurt |
soda | mineral water with fruit juice, homemade lemonade |
cake | large grain bread with natural jam |
cake | grain bread, strawberries with yogurt |
chips, fried potatoes | popcorn without salt and sugar, toasted in the microwave; Armenian lavash with cheese, olive oil |
canned fruit with sugar | fresh fruits, dried fruits |
chocolate (may indicate a lack of iron and B vitamins!) | natural expensive chocolate with low fat content, eat 4-5 squares a day with nuts and raisins |
cookies | crispbreads with fruit |
herrings | lightly salted sea fatty fish |
vegetable pickles | piece of meat, fish, fresh cucumber with sea salt |
full fat dairy products | low-fat, low-sugar dairy products; add dried fruits |
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Pregnancy is a time of new sensations and various complaints. Expectant mothers may notice drowsiness or irritability, pain in the head and lower back, changes in taste or nausea, and weight gain. Sometimes they notice that there is an increasing desire to drink a lot of liquid. Is extreme thirst associated with pregnancy?
Moderate or severe thirst is not a sign of pregnancy, although it is quite common during this period. Typically, the desire to drink a lot arises in the early stages, in the first or second trimester, and is more often noted during the day. However, night thirst also occurs. In the third trimester, the appearance of such a symptom along with swelling is often noted.
The causes of this condition can be both physiological and pathological. However, the appearance of such a complaint should alert the expectant mother. It is best not to delay consulting your doctor in this situation.
If severe thirst develops suddenly, in the midst of complete health, and is almost impossible to quench, a trip to a specialist should be made immediately.
Bearing a child is impossible without complete hormonal changes in the female body. The volume of substances changes, blood flow increases, and the rate of chemical reactions increases.
The expectant mother must ensure not only the normal functioning of her body, but also the growth of the fetus. All this requires additional fluid intake into the body and is manifested by the desire to drink a lot.
Physiological causes of thirst during pregnancy include:
If the desire to drink is due to physiological reasons, there is no need to be afraid of it. However, only the attending physician can determine the nature of thirst after conducting certain tests.
Although most often thirst during pregnancy is a natural phenomenon and can be easily corrected by changing your diet or drinking regime, sometimes it can become a symptom of a dangerous disease.
The most common pathological causes of thirst during pregnancy are:
Pathological thirst cannot be ignored. It can be suspected when you constantly want to drink and cannot satisfy this desire with any drinks. This condition requires a full examination and quality treatment, as its outcomes can be too serious.
Diabetes mellitus, or diabetes, can develop before conception or only during pregnancy. In the second case, it is called gestational and, with appropriate treatment after childbirth, disappears safely.
If a woman has not previously had any changes in blood sugar levels, then a sudden feeling of extreme thirst may be a sign of the onset of gestational diabetes. In addition to the desire to drink, the expectant mother may also notice other symptoms:
The combination of such signs with the first appearance of severe thirst indicates the development of gestational diabetes and requires immediate determination of blood glucose.
If a woman had diabetes before pregnancy, then a pronounced desire to drink is associated with decompensation of this disease. This can happen during pregnancy, as sugar levels and stress on the body change significantly. But as a rule, people with a long history of diabetes know the warning signs, and if they are constantly thirsty, they consult a doctor promptly.
Toxicosis in the early stages is often accompanied by vomiting. It can be one-time or, which happens more often, multiple times throughout the day. This condition can easily lead to dehydration, especially during the hot season.
With severe vomiting, the expectant mother will experience constant strong thirst. If you cannot cope with toxicosis and dehydration on your own, the woman will need hospital treatment - intravenous drip administration of fluid.
Increasing thirst against the background of vomiting is a dangerous sign.
In the second half of pregnancy, the expectant mother may experience gestosis. More often it is observed in the later stages, in the third trimester. Like toxicosis, it is a specific complication during pregnancy.
In this case, first of all, women begin to complain about the appearance of edema. However, they in no way indicate excess fluid intake. On the contrary, it is a symptom of impaired kidney function, due to which water is not retained in the vascular bed, but accumulates in the surrounding tissues. She practically does not participate in the exchange. That is why, despite the growing swelling, the expectant mother will constantly want to drink. And it is impossible to limit the flow of fluid in such a situation.
During pregnancy, defenses decrease, and various diseases begin to attack the female body. Most often these are ARVI, colds, pathologies of the respiratory system - pharyngitis, tonsillitis and bronchitis.
These diseases are often accompanied by an increase in body temperature, which causes thirst. Also, the desire to drink arises due to the emerging dryness of the mucous membranes.
The more fluid that comes in during an illness, the faster the expectant mother will cope with it. Therefore, a wise organism reacts to the pathological process with increasing thirst.
To distinguish a pathological desire to drink from a physiological one, a doctor’s consultation and a certain examination are necessary.
The doctor is able to suspect the true cause of thirst already during the interview and examination. However, there are a number of tests that are required when this symptom appears. First of all this:
If necessary, other examinations may be prescribed - for example, ultrasound.
It is impossible to get rid of pathological thirst without treating the underlying disease. And the therapy will be different in each case:
However, it is equally important to maintain the correct drinking regime. And in the case of physiological thirst, this is the only treatment option.
While pregnant, not all drinks are healthy. Some are categorically not recommended for quenching thirst. Pregnant women can drink:
Sweet carbonated water of all flavors and varieties, energy drinks, tonics, strong black tea, and coffee are prohibited.
Thirst may be common during pregnancy. But in order not to miss a dangerous disease, you must inform your doctor about it.
Most people can “boast” of periods of apathy and drowsiness. An abundance of incoming information, changing weather, an erratic sleep schedule - many factors can put a completely healthy person into a “zombie” state. The sensations at the same time are indescribable: the eyelids become heavy, the heart barely beats, reality “blurs”, and the jaw cramps from constant yawning. All day long you want to lie down somewhere, but the “harmful” employer is not ready to provide a sleeping place for his employees. If you are a woman, daytime sleepiness may indicate that you are pregnant. Often, frequent fatigue is the only sign of the first days of conception.
If suspicions about successful fertilization are confirmed, it’s time to prepare for the fact that the desire to fall asleep will become a faithful companion for a long time. After all, during pregnancy you constantly want to sleep. For a pregnant woman, the extra opportunity to rest is a “gift from heaven.”
It's no secret that in the process of viewing dreams, a person replenishes the resources wasted during the day. By switching off, the head gets rid of unnecessary information and the nervous system is regulated. During pregnancy, psychophysical costs exceed all previous records. After all, a separate organism is constantly being formed inside the expectant mother. These are colossal loads, and adequate sleep helps to cope with them.
Why do you want to sleep a lot during pregnancy? Experts identify three main factors that influence a woman’s well-being.
The combination of these reasons causes increased drowsiness. In this case, all efforts are aimed at the benefit of the unborn child, so there is no need to worry about emerging fatigue.
Nausea, weakness, and increased fatigue are known signs of pregnancy. The appearance of these symptoms before a missed period is significant for any woman. Sometimes a sudden onset of drowsiness serves as the only “marker” of embryo conception.
It is important to know! This is due to the hormone progesterone, which protects the fetus from rejection, strengthens the uterine walls, and helps the fertilized egg to finally “settle.” The costs of these processes are expressed in the “sluggish” state of the expectant mother.
Typical complaints of pregnant women are sudden changes in mood, loss of strength, and unreasonable anxiety. Every woman experiences the effects of hormonal fluctuations to varying degrees.
Some are constantly full of strength and energy, others literally “fell off their feet” already in the first days of conception. How we feel always changes chaotically: today we “move mountains,” and tomorrow we mobilize the last crumbs of strength to brush our teeth. One should approach such unpredictability philosophically: everything cannot be changed. To save creative energy, there is a simple exercise:
As a result of the work done, people felt great relief. By getting rid of unnecessary actions, a pregnant woman learns to evenly distribute her own strength, avoiding overload.
Drowsiness has different causes at different times. If at the initial stage you really want to sleep due to a hormonal “surge,” then in the second trimester increased fatigue is a consequence of the growth and development of the fetus. When the process of bearing a child proceeds normally, drowsiness disappears in the middle and last stages.
Attention! In cases where the apathetic state persists in later periods, you should be wary. Often the causes of these manifestations can be various complications.
In the early stages of fertilization, the hypertrophied need for rest does not pose a danger. It’s just that all the forces of the expectant mother’s body are working to create a new life. Large expenditures of resources require appropriate compensation. The sleep phase restores lost strength and directs it in the right direction.
As the fetus develops in the abdomen, the toxicosis characteristic of the early stages decreases. After the first trimester, the symptoms of drowsiness gradually disappear.
The 14th week is the start of the second trimester of pregnancy. During this period, the placenta completes its formation, unpleasant symptoms such as nausea, odor intolerance, and permanent fatigue disappear. But it happens that hopes for eliminating drowsiness do not justify themselves. The reason for the manifestation of daytime weakness in the fourth month of gestation is the intensive development of the embryo. As a result of the formation of the biorhythms of the fetus, the mother’s body is forced to “adapt” to the sleep pattern of the unborn child. However, gynecologists do not recommend long morning sleep. If you sleep a lot during this stage of pregnancy, blood circulation is impaired and a depressed state appears.
In late pregnancy, “chronic sleep deprivation” can occur due to the increase in the size of the baby. Pressure on internal organs and intrauterine restlessness at night often cause disturbances in a pregnant woman’s night rest. If persistent fatigue does not improve or worsens, you should consult a doctor. Third trimester drowsiness can be associated with various pathologies.
In the last stages of pregnancy, it is important to promptly identify possible diseases that affect fatigue. Some of them can be eliminated quite easily, with the help of vitamin therapy, while others are serious and cannot be delayed.
So, the pathological causes of drowsiness in expectant mothers:
It is important to know! In any case, the presence of suspicious anomalies is a reason to undergo a medical examination. Timely treatment can eliminate the possibility of fatal consequences.
If the presence of serious diseases has not been confirmed, then the desire to sleep a lot is a consequence of natural processes. The expectant mother is able to independently correct unpleasant symptoms. Particularly active women continue to work literally until they go to the maternity hospital. In this case, the question arises of getting rid of daytime sleepiness in a work environment.
Here is a list of measures that will help you stay alert throughout the day:
Here is an approximate list of actions to maintain vitality outside the home. It’s easier to fight drowsiness in your own apartment:
Frequent walks and breathing exercises will not only help relieve drowsiness, but will also have a general healing effect on the body.
It's normal to want to sleep longer during pregnancy. Thus, the body accumulates strength in preparation for the upcoming birth. After the birth of a girl or a boy, a young mother will remember with trepidation about a good rest. Taking care of the baby will fill all possible space, displacing unscheduled sleep for a long time. Women joke: “During pregnancy, it’s difficult to sleep on your side; with the birth of your child, you’ll learn to sleep even while standing.”
During the prenatal period, you should not deny yourself additional rest. Increased drowsiness in the later stages is considered an alarm bell. A doctor’s examination and comprehensive treatment will help identify and prevent a serious illness.
Any woman can relieve the symptoms of regular weakness. Following the principles of a healthy lifestyle is a good habit that will come in handy in the future.
Really! Science has proven that the hormone progesterone, which is especially active in the first trimester of pregnancy, is to blame for the emergence and changes in taste preferences and habits in the body of pregnant women as a result of hormonal changes. It should be noted that during pregnancy, food preferences not only change and there is a desire to eat what, so to speak, “adequate” people consider inedible, but also completely new needs and desires appear.
As is already known, progesterone is a pregnancy hormone that is responsible for its preservation and development of the fetus. Progesterone is produced in three places: the ovaries, the adrenal cortex and the placenta, which forms at 16 weeks of pregnancy. From the moment of implantation, increased synthesis of progesterone begins, that is, the attachment of the embryo to the uterine mucosa. In addition to such effects as relaxing the tone of smooth muscles, including the uterus, the “pregnancy hormone” also takes part in stimulating the growth of the mammary glands and prevents the body from rejecting the fetus directly.
Influencing the central nervous system, this hormone forms a focus of excitation in the brain - the dominant feature of pregnancy. Due to the increased levels of the hormone in the body, a number of biochemical changes occur, which turn on the “search engine” in order to identify and use the substances necessary for pregnancy from the woman’s body.
It follows from this that it is progesterone that determines the norm or deficiency of nutrients, and in case of deficiency of the latter, it launches a special team to meet the necessary needs (microelements, vitamins, proteins, and so on). Thus, a woman’s desire to eat chalk with a calcium deficiency or drink a glass of beer with a lack of B vitamins becomes understandable.
But one should not discount psychological factors that play a role, and a significant one, in changes in taste sensations in women. In many cases, a pregnant woman unconsciously, and often consciously, wants to attract the attention of her husband or loved ones with her whim, being confident that what she wants will be brought to her on a plate.
One of the main culprits for changes in eating habits in pregnant women, even to the point of perversion of taste, is anemia of pregnant women. Most often, iron deficiency anemia develops, caused by a lack of iron, folic acid and vitamin B12.
Taste preferences manifest themselves in the form of a desire to eat ice or clay. Treatment of anemia consists of prescribing iron supplements and vitamins (group B, folic acid, vitamin C). A pregnant woman's diet should be dominated by foods with a high iron content (liver, eggs, cottage cheese, beef, fish, buckwheat).
As scientists explain, a categorical refusal to consume some previously consumed foods is associated with a protective reaction of the body. The mother's body tries to prevent toxins from affecting the fetus. As already mentioned, aversion to certain foods occurs in the first trimester of pregnancy, when the formation of the main organs and systems of the child occurs.
This can also explain the reluctance to eat bitter foods (pepper, spices). Like all mammals, already at the level of instincts the body regards all bitter substances as poisons (which is indeed true, attractive in appearance, for example, wolf berries are not only dangerous, but also have a pronounced bitterness).
What should a pregnant woman do if there is a complete or partial loss of taste? The most important thing: you need to seek help from a doctor. Even the slightest change in the ability to perceive the taste of foods, which occurs suddenly, or a rapidly developing perversion of taste is the first sign that you need to seek help from your obstetrician-gynecologist and receive qualified medical care, possibly with the participation of other specialists. Only after the exact cause of this phenomenon is established, a course of treatment is prescribed.
Remember that self-medication can be dangerous to your health! Consult your experts! Be healthy!