The day has just begun, and are you already tired? Every morning is similar to the previous one, like in the movie “Groundhog Day”: first you need to prepare breakfast, then wake up and feed the child, take him to kindergarten or school; On the way to work, you will, of course, get into a traffic jam and be late again... Everything repeats itself day after day and in no way. But while it seems to you that nothing is changing, your children are growing up. And one day, looking back, you will suddenly begin to regret that in all this routine you lost many minutes that you could have spent with your son or daughter when they were little. This article is for those parents who do not want to miss precious time.
Depending on your children's school schedule and your work day, on average you always have 1-2 hours to spend with your child. So make the most of this time and turn it into memorable moments filled with family traditions and honest conversations.
Parents very often believe that since there is not much time to relax with their children, they should fill it as much as possible with various entertainments: a trip to the zoo, a movie. But in reality, getting to all these places will waste a lot of time, and the quality of communication with your children will suffer greatly. Children, of course, need to be entertained, but their whole life should not be turned into a pursuit of entertainment.
So, advice one: if you want to slow down time, then learn to spend it fun and interesting right in your apartment or near your house, and not somewhere far away.
The hour left before is not the most pleasant time: you need to go to bed soon, so you can’t do any serious things; In addition, everyone already feels tired - both children and parents. Often at this time, kids wander around the apartment in search of something to do and are capricious, and mothers and fathers try to escape from the hustle and bustle, including their favorite TV series. And here again time is wasted.
Therefore, the second piece of advice: try to walk a little before bedtime with your child in good weather and chat with him about little things.
Another necessary family tradition is having dinner together. In the modern world, a situation where all family members live according to different schedules is considered normal, but you can always find one hour to have dinner together. While the children help set the table, you can discuss the news. Children really appreciate such moments. And if you come up with themed dinners, these moments together will become even more valuable. For example, every Friday you can have a dinner with national dishes of a certain country. Let the child choose which country is interesting to him. This way, children will become familiar with the customs of different nations and will be interested in helping you cook.
Therefore, the third tip is very simple: try to have dinner with the whole family.
To learn life skills, children need to spend as much time with you as possible and gain experience from you. So let them take part in solving simple everyday problems! For example, if there is something broken in the house that you can fix on your own, involve your children in this activity. Invite them to shine a flashlight or hand them tools. Tell me... For you this is just an ordinary activity, but for a child it is an exciting game that he plays with his parents. So let him play it more often.
Therefore, remember the fourth tip: involve your child in homework and do it with him.
If you allow your children to play computer games, your children will be delighted that you can join them. Learn to play your child's favorite game. The child will really like the fact that he can beat you and show more dexterity than you. This is an interesting experience for a child - to see that you are also a person and you can be beaten. But do not forget about time restrictions so that it does not replace the real one.
Play computer games with your child - this is our fifth tip.
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Create your own box of emotions. It's very easy to do. Choose a relevant theme, such as spring, and collect all the objects that remind you of it through hearing, taste, smell, sight and touch.
How does your child perceive spring? Maybe she reminds him of the birds chirping outside the window? The taste of spring may be similar to the taste of early apples, and its smell resembles the smell of melted snow. In spring, our eyes rejoice at the blue sky and bright sun, and our hands feel the chill of the barely receding winter. Put it all in one box - toy birds, apples, images of the sky and the sun.
By discussing any chosen topic in this way, you and your child will use all the senses as much as possible. This way you can discuss different feelings with him, such as happiness or sadness. This will teach the child to better understand his own and other people’s emotions, which means he will develop.
Choose any topic that your child might be interested in and create seven different presentations of that topic. This is an ideal exercise for developing imagination and creativity. For example, your topic is “Planets”.
You can come up with 10 interesting topics for this exercise in advance, then you will have an exciting program ready for the three months ahead. This will not only give you vivid and unforgettable emotions and impressions.
The sandbox is a special world for a child, in which he sets the rules himself.
Independence in play teaches children to set priorities correctly and make the right decisions as adults.
Therefore, it is so important to give your child as many opportunities as possible to play with sand.
In our case, kinetic sand, which was created specifically for playing at home, is ideal. Build a beautiful castle or interesting figures together with your child, create with him that very fairy-tale world in which children feel most comfortable.
This not only compensates for the lack of your attention when you are busy with work, but also perfectly develops creativity, creativity, imagination, regulates thinking mechanisms and develops fine motor skills.
Modeling plasticine is incredibly useful emotionally, because it allows the child to express his feelings and experiences, helps him relax and completely surrender to creativity. However, sculpting with mom can be even more beneficial if you include educational elements in this activity.
For example, you can teach your child numbers and letters by molding them together from plasticine. Make interesting numbers in different colors and different thicknesses.
For example, if the number 1 is made of thick red plasticine, it will seem very strong. And if a two is molded from thin white plasticine, it will seem weaker than a one. Use your imagination, come up with ideas, observe the child’s reaction and continue only the topic that arouses his emotions and interest.
This way you will not only have fun, but also teach your child numbers, letters, and help him develop imagination and abstract thinking.
Reading fairy tales can become even more fun if you choose a book with entertaining exercises and educational games.
After each story you tell, you can engage your child’s imagination by inviting him to play a themed game or complete an interesting task.
The book “Monsiki. What are emotions and how to be friends with them.” Each story of the fairy-tale Monsies reveals one of the emotions for the child, and each task helps to understand this emotion and manage it. This exciting activity will give you and your child a lot of pleasant impressions and moments of happiness.
Even if you couldn’t devote time to your child today, every smile, look or second of communication is priceless for him. These moments always fill the child with warmth and love.
No matter how much time you devote to your child, any minute spent together can become incredibly interesting, bright and memorable. Create your own world together with your child, invent, create and feel!
Children are amazing creatures. They grow at an incredible speed, and you probably already had this strange feeling, as if just yesterday the long-awaited child was taken out of the maternity hospital, and today you are buying notebooks and pens together for going to first grade.
It may seem that 18 years is a huge, almost endless period, but the child is growing right before our eyes, and it is important to pay enough attention to him before the sweet time of childhood ends. A child’s imagination is not limited, but it is quite difficult for him to come up with interesting, exciting entertainment on his own. The adult’s task is to help inventing. And it’s not at all necessary that all the fun should go to the child, while the adult is left behind. No. There are many ways to have fun and interestingly spend your free time together.
We have collected 10 ways for you that will diversify your life and will not let either you or your child get bored.
It may seem stupid to you, but a child watches movies and sees his foreign peers having pajama parties and having fun. Why not repeat it? Just you and the child, or you can invite friends for a sleepover if the parents don’t mind. It would be ideal if there were sleeping bags that could be laid out in the living room. If you don't have them, regular pillows and blankets will do. Don't forget to stock up on snacks, board games, and of course, pajamas! By the way, you can sew funny pajama outfits yourself, together with your child. Let your son or daughter choose the theme, color and fabric, and then spend a few hours together creating outfits for the whole group. You will look funny, and maybe even ridiculous, but everyone will get a lot of impressions and memories in any case.
And no, it’s not at all necessary to sigh and look forward to several hours of boredom when only the child will have fun. Modern cartoons have an interesting, exciting plot, they are well designed, and you will probably like them. Pay attention to films from Disney and Pixar studios. And remember: you always want to crunch something while watching movies. You will enjoy watching cartoons more if you have popcorn or chips on hand.
An activity that can brighten up your time and fill the refrigerator with something tasty is cooking together. No one forces you to teach your beloved child the basics of cooking borscht, although who knows, maybe your child will enjoy cooking borscht?
On the Internet you will find a lot of interesting and simple recipes that will allow you to prepare original and unusual dishes. By the way, most famous chefs acquired a love for cooking in childhood, when they helped their parents cook. Try cooking something together, and maybe your child will grow up to be the future Gordon Ramsay.
Our favorites among interesting children's dishes: Turtle cutlets, Ladybug sandwiches and Squirrel salad.
Very often children turn their nose up at anything that is even slightly useful for them. However, children also often, wanting to imitate adults, repeat after them. Even if a child for some reason doesn’t like playing on BrainApps on his own, he will love doing it with his parent.
The variety of games will not let you or your child get bored. The main advantage of this way to spend time together is that you combine benefits with fun. Educational games are divided into 3 categories to help train:
Play with your child and see how high of a result you can achieve together. Or take turns playing, compete and see who can handle the educational puzzles better.
Modern children, with their various gadgets such as tablets and phones, have forgotten how to have fun outside. Just look at the playgrounds: children sit on benches, staring at monitors, instead of playing ball or riding on swings.
Drawing with crayons on the asphalt is something like rock painting for them. Buy a box of crayons from the store and show your child the fun of your own childhood. You can start with ordinary drawings. When you get bored, draw a hopscotch board and then explain how to play it correctly. We are sure that the child will be delighted with such an immersion into the world of the parent’s childhood.
In summer and autumn, materials for future works of art are right under our feet, and we don’t even notice it. Creating herbariums is a skill that is relevant at all times; it will keep you and your child busy for many hours, and at the same time will encourage you to go for a walk once again.
You will have to go outside to collect suitable material for the future herbarium. In autumn, it is best to collect leaves in September, before they have just fallen from the trees and do not have time to get wet. In summer, you can collect green leaves directly from bushes and trees, and of course, you can find flowers in any area with vegetation.
When the leaves are collected, place them between two sheets of paper, put them in a well-ventilated place, and place a press on top, even a heavy book will do. An easier option is to put leaves and flowers between book pages, but in this case there is a high risk of ruining the book. Complete drying takes from 3 to 7 days.
When the leaves are dry, glue them onto paper; the ideal option for a herbarium is a sketchbook. Explain to your child that you need to glue dry leaves very carefully, they are fragile and break easily. And of course, don't forget to label the leaves and flowers! The names can be found on the Internet, or just pay attention when collecting the leaves of which trees your child collects.
Making jewelry from beads calms, develops perseverance, and also trains fine motor skills of a child’s hands. You've probably heard about anti-stress coloring books that calm you down and help you get rid of tension. So, bead weaving works on the same principle, but costs much less. In addition, you can do weaving together with your child, and the result will be simple and beautiful jewelry that the girl can wear on herself and show off to her friends.
Beads are sold in any craft department; first buy several small bags of different colors, in case your child doesn’t like it. Instructions for weaving can be downloaded on the Internet, or pay attention to special books; everything is described in detail and intelligibly in them, so that even a child can understand.
To organize a real search for treasures, for example, pirate treasures, you will have to use your imagination, and it will also take several hours of free time. But it’s guaranteed to be worth it, because the child will be delighted!
The game is to place leaflets with clues throughout the house. First, the child will find the first one, he will have to solve the riddle in order to understand where the next piece of paper is. So, gradually moving around the house, he will finally reach the treasure in which the treasures are located. It doesn’t have to be something expensive; the main thing in treasure hunting is not the treasure, but the process itself. Hide the child’s favorite sweet, or some gift, in the place of the treasure. It is better to start preparations in advance; it will take time to come up with all the riddles. Lay out the sheets while your child is away, and when he or she arrives, let the fun begin!
If you're lucky enough to have your own private home or yard with friendly neighbors, a grand yard sale of unwanted items is just what you need. Firstly, you and your child will have an interesting time, secondly, you will free up space at home, and thirdly, you will earn money! Each of us has things at home that we have not used for a hundred years, but which may be useful to someone.
Print a notice for sale, gather your things, have a table to put them on, or a tablecloth to just lay them neatly on the floor. To make the sale beautiful, make price tags together with your child.
The last piece of advice I prepared is very versatile, because learning skills is always interesting. The only question is, what skill are you planning to learn together? Here the matter is limited only by your imagination and the preferences of the child. Playing a musical instrument, juggling, playing mini golf, cycling, going to a book club - there are truly a huge number of activities that you can do with your child. The most important thing is to have fun. Both for you and for him.
Children always need our attention. If you work with them purposefully, and not just once, they begin to more clearly perceive everything that happens around them and with them. How to spend your days with your child? There are a lot of ideas, get acquainted!
The beginning of the year is a great time to figure out what and how you and your child will do in the next twelve months. Of course, it is impossible to foresee absolutely everything, but we still drew up an approximate monthly action plan. Study, complement – and implement!
We drink fish oil - a source of Omega-3 fatty acids. Its use strengthens the immune system, has a beneficial effect on intellectual development, significantly accelerates the formation of reading skills and stimulates the cognitive activity of children. Doctors recommend drinking fish oil in courses: we take it for a month, then take a break for two months (children’s doses are indicated on the package).
We are making a list of books that it is advisable to read with your child in the coming year (according to the baby’s age). If possible, we read every day, at least at night.
We make sure that the child’s diet contains enough fresh vegetables and fruits (especially carrots and apples). Don’t forget about exercise, and we pay special attention to exercises that allow you to form correct posture.
In secret from dad and grandfathers, we are preparing gifts for February 23 - and solemnly presenting them when the time comes!
To avoid spring vitamin deficiency, we take vitamin preparations.
We fill out a tax return to receive a social tax deduction for treatment expenses (your own and your children’s), if in the past year you used the services of paid doctors. Attention: keep all receipts and other documents! The declaration must be submitted to the tax office no later than April 30.
We go to the dentist (preventive examination is recommended once a year). We drink fish oil (the two-month break has already ended).
We’re planning our summer vacation – early booking of tickets and hotels can sometimes help you save a lot.
Calcium supplements will not interfere with growing bones and teeth.
We buy an air purifier - we need it (we remember what the last two summers were like!)
And no business! Everyone is on vacation!
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If possible, we teach the child to swim (don’t forget to explain the rules of safe behavior on and near water)
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Let's continue to relax, it's summer!
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We eat seasonal berries, vegetables and fruits on both cheeks and actively spend time in the fresh air.
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We get tested for enterobiasis (it won’t hurt after summer). We undergo a preventive examination by an ENT specialist (especially if the child is being seen for problems with adenoids/tonsils), an orthopedist and other specialists.
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We sign up for school preparation courses (this applies to older preschoolers), sections and clubs. We're planning a winter vacation - it's time.
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Fish oil – a whole month! While you still can, walk as much as possible.
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We involve the child in housework and draw up a list of responsibilities for him (feasible and not boring - for example, putting away toys every day, arranging books, watering flowers, etc.).
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We take vitamins because the immune system already needs support.
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We are compiling an approximate list of New Year's gifts (you can place orders online now, taking into account delivery time).
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We carry out hardening procedures.
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We sort out household belongings and get rid of things that have become obsolete. What is still quite suitable, but you personally no longer need, we take to some charitable foundation - and we certainly explain to the child the meaning of our actions. We beautifully package gifts for friends and family – and present them when the time comes, with warm words and congratulations.
There is no such thing as a boring weekend, but there can be a complete lack of ideas on what to do with your child. We will show you how to organize an interesting outdoor holiday with your children.
What could be better than lying on the grass, breathing in the fresh air and basking in the warm rays? Sunbathing is beneficial for everyone, regardless of age, and especially for modern “recluses” of offices and apartments. You can have a picnic in the yard, or go to a city park, to the river bank, or to the nearest forest. Don't forget to bring tasty treats, as well as a ball, badminton, and Frisbee.
We often don’t have enough time to communicate with relatives and friends, so we can organize a small marathon among our acquaintances. Prepare in advance with your child beautiful drawings for each recipient - grandmother, aunt, child’s friends. While the child is busy drawing, call the recipients and find out if they will be at home, warn them about their arrival - let them prepare a symbolic reward for the “postman”, for example, candy or fruit. If you have a car, then in just a couple of hours you will have time to send postcards to many friends - just don’t linger anywhere.
Many parents complain that their children hardly spend time outside or play games. Maybe they just didn’t tell the kids about them? Teach your child to jump over an elastic band, draw hopscotch or a snail, tell about Cossack robbers and tag.
Go for a walk, and along the way, tell your child about the main road signs. Let this not be a boring lecture, but a fun quiz, where rewards are given for correct answers. In general, the theme of the “camping quiz” can be anything, depending on the age of the participant - colors, letters, reading inscriptions, professions, numbers.
Here we have combined different options for getting to know the world of wildlife - depending on what you have in your city. Such trips are perceived with delight by children. Maybe the child will like some section at the zoo - the problem of how to occupy part of his free time will be solved.
If in a zoo you can mainly only look at the animals, then no one forbids feeding the inhabitants of the parks. These could be ducks in the pond, squirrels, and, of course, you will see pigeons in any public garden. Don’t forget to bring treats for the animals you are visiting.
Such water activities are good for everyone: in the summer, a trip to the water park can compensate for the inability to escape to the sea, and in the winter it will remind you of the warm months and relaxation.
If you have never been to the theater, now is the time to catch up! Usually all information on performances can be found on city posters or on theater websites. Study the repertoire in advance to find something that suits your child’s age and interests.
This is a “summer” and “winter” holiday option. Of course, the amusement park usually has more entertainment, but it is only open during the warm season. Halls with slot machines for children are always available. Here you can not only shoot and run, but also go on popular 5D attractions. You just need to carefully choose the film - small and overly impressionable kids may be scared of a realistic picture.
Today, children's toy stores sell cars, helicopters, and radio-controlled boats. Many of these toys are quite affordable, and they will cause genuine delight in the child. Such games captivate not only children, but also adults, so be prepared to spend more than one hour controlling your “equipment”.
The most unforgettable weekends often end with the phrase “What a pity we didn’t take a camera.” A separate entertainment can be a photo shoot, for example, in a park or on a playground. To prevent your child from getting tired, allow him to change outfits, make faces, and take a variety of poses. You can give your baby a children's camera.
Draw a map on an A4 sheet of paper, for example, of a playground labeled “Treasure”. While the baby is not looking, hide a little surprise in this place. Tear the sheet with the map into equal parts (for example, 4 or 6). Come up with competitions on how your child can earn a piece of the map, for example, by asking riddles. Once the treasure hunter has collected all the pieces of the map, he can put them together and find your surprise.
Today, sky lanterns are very popular; they fly up into the sky with bright lights, reminiscent of a miracle. Such an interesting thing will certainly delight the child, in addition, he can make a cherished wish by launching a flashlight into the sky.
If you have at least a modest ability to create things with your own hands, invite your child to make a kite. You are responsible for the “engineering” part, and the child can decorate the kite as he or she wishes. On the right day, fly your kite into the sky.
The weekend can be not only interesting, but also educational if you go to a museum or gallery. Various math classes for children are becoming increasingly popular among city mothers: one day you can learn how to cook pizza or chocolates, make some kind of toy, or take a painting lesson. Study the city poster - there will probably be an event in it that you can attend with your child, for example, some exciting quest in a museum or in the fresh air.
If the child is big enough, you can take him with you on a hike to collect forest products. Such an adventure will be remembered for a long time, and a sound sleep after a day in nature is guaranteed. A trip to the forest is also a great chance to start collecting your own herbarium.
This place is associated with celebration, fun, laughter and joy. Surely the child will receive a lot of positive emotions.
Introducing a child to a book is the responsibility of every parent. A book for a child is a ticket to the magical world of adventure.
These can be serious football matches, hockey, basketball, and junior section competitions. Perhaps your child will like some sport so much that he will become seriously interested in it.
There is nothing more interesting than building castles, digging sand trenches, and sculpting sand cakes. Help your child build something grand, like a castle for dolls or soldiers.
We hope that among all the options presented you will find something useful and give your child a wonderful weekend filled with emotions and pleasant events.
Last update: 02/14/2015
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